Kimery Irby

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Are you in a committed relationship, engaged, married, merging families, or experiencing a caregiver burden? Are you going through a separation or divorce, adjusting to life after divorce, or just needing to reestablish boundaries with your co-parent? Essential Pieces Therapy Plus offers a variety of trauma-informed family services. As a family neutral, I assist both parties to communicate freely and develop mutual respect for the process and one another. I take an unbiased approach to reframe the narrative of each party and promote a safe atmosphere where communication can prevail. I look at issues from a range of angles and perspectives and facilitate solutions that each party can agree upon. Whether you are in a new relationship, starting a new family, blending, or mending your family structure, Essential Pieces Therapy Plus has the right family service for you.

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family therapy

Family Therapy- It is not uncommon for families to go through challenges occasionally. However, you would want to consider seeking a higher level of care for your family if the challenges affect you or your loved one’s work, school, or everyday interactions. I will help each member understand what is happening and the onset of the issue, ask questions, listen, understand each other’s perceptions, and communicate more effectively to resolve conflict. We must not forget that family is essential to every stage of your life. Together we can strengthen bonds to hold your family.

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COUPLES COUNSELING

Couples Counseling

Couples Counseling - Take a proactive approach to strengthen your relationship. You don’t have to wait until you recognize relationship problems to attend your first counseling session. At any stage of your relationship, reflecting on the importance of prioritizing your relationship is essential. In couples counseling, the client is the relationship, and you will learn what it takes to nurture, nourish, and navigate through challenges and triumphs. Don’t let distance, disconnection, and distractions come between you and your partner. Instead, let trust, tenderness, teamwork, and therapeutic interventions take your relationship to the next level.

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Collaborative Divorce Family Professional Services

Collaborative Divorce Family Professional Services (Family and Child Specialist) - Did you know there is an alternative method of dissolving a marriage instead of traditional divorce litigation? You don’t have to get caught in the exchange of demands and accusations in traditional adversarial divorces. A collaborative divorce is a viable option if you and your spouse agree to cooperate mutually, problem-solve, and disclose all information and documents pertinent to the issues. In collaborative divorce, all decisions relevant to the dissolution of the marriage occurs outside of the courtroom. Thus, both parties retain the power to make decisions in a safe, confidential atmosphere with collaboratively trained professionals. Each party will have its collaborative attorney to provide legal advice. The neutral family and financial professionals are also there to add fairness, transparency, and truth to the process. As your family professional, I will bring peace, understanding, organization, and process innovation to the team.

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Pre and Post-Separation & divorce coaching

Separation and Divorce Coaching - Pre and Post-Separation and Divorce Coaching - It’s challenging to navigate divorce's financial, emotional, and legal aspects. Your attorneys and financial planners will give you solid advice and options throughout the divorce process. My role as a divorce coach is to leave the legal and financial advice to the specialist and focus on helping you navigate the divorce process's uncertainties. I will help to save you peace, time, and money by assisting you in exploring your options to manage conflicts and make choices that are in your best interest for all involved. During the divorce and afterward, I will help you to move forward by identifying action-oriented steps to help you stand independently. I will assist you with planning and creating a new future focusing on self-care, career, finances, and experiences you want to achieve. Having an unbiased, unjudgmental, understanding professional like me by your side is self-care personified. 

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Family MEDIATION Services TO DRAFTING OR MODIFY PARENTING PLANS

Mediation to Drafting or Modify Parenting Plans - The one thing divorcing and unmarried parents can agree on is their love for their child(ren). So, start with love by creating a custom parenting plan designed to meet the unique needs of your child(ren). As your dedicated mediator, I will serve as a facilitator of peace, a source of empowerment, and an advocate for the well-being of the child(ren). I will use my therapeutic negotiation skills to encourage an atmosphere of compromise, cooperation, and mutual respect. During the process, we will build the foundation for ongoing healthy communication even after mediation. The overall goal is to create or recreate an effective parenting plan that is well thought out and applicable for years to come. The greatest reward, other than saving time and money, and avoiding mental anguish, is to foster a realistic plan to promote mental stability, secure attachments, and predictability for your child. Your child deserves nothing but the best. Let’s make it possible, contact me.

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Counter parenting to Co-Parenting Counseling Sessions

Counter Parenting to Co-Parenting Counseling Sessions - It’s time to take action to ensure that your child has the love, support, and involvement of BOTH parents who are functioning at their best after a stressful situation like separation or divorce. This service is for you to attend alone or with your co-parent. It can be challenging for children to feel completely loved when parents take an adversarial approach to co-parent. Please don’t let the emotional needs of your children get overshadowed by feelings of frustration, anger, and resentment. Co-parenting counseling is the solution if you and your co-parent struggle with communication, miscommunication, conflict, and alienation. Moving forward with a new vision and focus, we will use the mishaps of the past to grow and co-parent education to make better decisions in your parent interactions. 

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Conscience Uncoupling Sessions (Love it Out): Proactive Conversations to Separate and Divorce with Dignity 

Conscience Uncoupling Sessions (Love it Out): Proactive Conversations to Separate and Divorce with Dignity - Are you struggling with your marriage but hesitant to call it quits or get a divorce? Does one partner want a divorce, but the other wants to repair the relationship? Have you both decided to separate or divorce but want to do it with the least emotional damage possible? As your therapist, I can help you understand your emotions, develop compassion for one another, and maintain respect as you face relationship challenges. Based on your perspective, together, we can determine if there is a solution to restore the relationship. In contrast, if you and your partner are ready to make a smooth transition toward the next stage in your life, let’s do so in a way that would minimize the negative impact on you, your partner, family, and friends. No matter the case, it is time to challenge and change how breakups and divorces begin and end. Let me assist you both with learning more about who you are as an individual and how you can confidently walk away with optimism about your future.

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Pieces to Peace Separation and Divorce Recovery Group Sessions

Pieces to Peace Separation and Divorce Recovery Group Sessions

Not only is this a group, but it is also a community. Now is the opportunity to join and belong to a group that is resiliently transitioning from divorce to divinely starting anew. This is a compassionate space to join with others who understand what you are going through. You can talk to people experiencing the same struggles as you are in a non-judgmental setting. 

Masterpiece Men- As a part of this group, you and the other participants will sharpen one another with constructive feedback, wisdom, truth, and life experiences. Like a work of art, you are uniquely created to express an important idea or feeling. You will contribute your separation and divorce experiences to the group to be explored and interpreted from all different angles. Each participant will leave this group feeling empowered, valued, and worthy. 

Wonder Women- Participants’ observations of one another’s strengths, growth, and resilience will leave them in awe of each other. In the group, participants will learn to what it means to admire, support, and uplift one another. Each participant will learn how something unfamiliar like a separation or divorce can contribute to the growth and recreation of something new inside of you.